Abuse Me Not
Unlike a few individuals, I know & have been friends with in the past have dealt with some sort of an abusive relationship, and friendship in which the friendship part. People seem to think that you can’t have one of those, but we tend to look at the more physical side of things rather than the mental that can lead up to physical damage. Case in point I’ve been physically abused by friends. Well sorry those people weren’t my friends, I found out later on in life, and my that time the damage was already done, and of course you left hurt, and all types of shit like. Prolly blaming yourself for the mishap, but some people believe it, or not come into your life to make your life miserable just on the count that their life is fucked up. Those you have to watch, I mean, I can’t sit here, and give you but so much. You really have to have that ability to be able to see threw the mask of deception upon introduction because just like Maya Angelou said “If Someone Shows You Who They Are Believe Them”
& that’s clearly a true statement, but nobody’s perfect, I guess I’ve always had that no how, but blocked some of the shit out because, I just wanted the them to be different, and I could change them eventually, but let’s face the facts you can’t change nobody unless they want to be change, I wanted to do this post yesterday, I overheard a woman explain to someone that her, and her boyfriend got into a heated situation, and the ending result was it got physical, and the proof was on her, and of course he was nowhere in sight, I wanted at that point so bad to give her my opinion, but I stayed out of it because some people no matter what you say to them for the greater good of their well being they blind to the fact, and with me writing it here. Maybe somebody going through the same thing can benefit from it, and think about their life because in a rage of violence another life is ended. We all know that the violence can stem from any number of reasons that raises a question we always ask…. WHY??? A sense of empowerment, I get mad enough to enforce physical pain. In the end she wanted to know what to do. Should, I or shouldn’t, I maybe I can’t bring myself to hurt the man that did this to me, but what if this happens again, and you’re not so lucky to live to tell about, I seen, and heard about so many horror stories cause someone enraged lost control. Let’s be smart about oneself, and end it for the sake of yourself.
Unlike a few individuals, I know & have been friends with in the past have dealt with some sort of an abusive relationship, and friendship in which the friendship part. People seem to think that you can’t have one of those, but we tend to look at the more physical side of things rather than the mental that can lead up to physical damage. Case in point I’ve been physically abused by friends. Well sorry those people weren’t my friends, I found out later on in life, and my that time the damage was already done, and of course you left hurt, and all types of shit like. Prolly blaming yourself for the mishap, but some people believe it, or not come into your life to make your life miserable just on the count that their life is fucked up. Those you have to watch, I mean, I can’t sit here, and give you but so much. You really have to have that ability to be able to see threw the mask of deception upon introduction because just like Maya Angelou said “If Someone Shows You Who They Are Believe Them”
& that’s clearly a true statement, but nobody’s perfect, I guess I’ve always had that no how, but blocked some of the shit out because, I just wanted the them to be different, and I could change them eventually, but let’s face the facts you can’t change nobody unless they want to be change, I wanted to do this post yesterday, I overheard a woman explain to someone that her, and her boyfriend got into a heated situation, and the ending result was it got physical, and the proof was on her, and of course he was nowhere in sight, I wanted at that point so bad to give her my opinion, but I stayed out of it because some people no matter what you say to them for the greater good of their well being they blind to the fact, and with me writing it here. Maybe somebody going through the same thing can benefit from it, and think about their life because in a rage of violence another life is ended. We all know that the violence can stem from any number of reasons that raises a question we always ask…. WHY??? A sense of empowerment, I get mad enough to enforce physical pain. In the end she wanted to know what to do. Should, I or shouldn’t, I maybe I can’t bring myself to hurt the man that did this to me, but what if this happens again, and you’re not so lucky to live to tell about, I seen, and heard about so many horror stories cause someone enraged lost control. Let’s be smart about oneself, and end it for the sake of yourself.
so true but for sme easier said thn done
ReplyDeleteYeah for some it is, but Love is never suppose to hurt you & I feel that's where we tend to get everything twisted in a sense
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